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Gratitude

The following meditation was written by Hannah Anglemyer, a youth at First Presbyterian Church of Delray Beach.

“I’m not saying this because I need anything, for I have earned how to be content in any circumstance. I know the experience of being in need and of having more than enough; I have learned the secret to being content in any and every circumstance, whether full or hungry or whether having plenty or being poor. I can endure all these things through the power of the one who gives me strength.”

Philippians 4:11-13 (Common English Bible)

My math teacher from my freshman year of high school had a tradition each year right before we took midterms. She went around to each one of her classes with a little black bag containing a bunch of tiny rocks with motivational sayings or phrases etched into the front. Then, without knowing what the rocks say, we all reached inside and grabbed one. According to her, the rock you grabbed is supposed to be something you need or something that can motivate you to get through midterms. The rock I grabbed had the word “gratitude” etched into its front. And so, taking its advice, I thanked my teacher for the gift and tucked it into a tiny pocket of my backpack I almost never touch. See, when I reach into my backpack, I’m usually looking for something—my trigonometry notes, my calculator, my Chinese textbook—or because I have midterms, tests, and then finals to worry about. But now, I’m a sophomore, and that’s all still true! But my homework takes longer, my tests are harder, and for the first time ever, math doesn’t make as much sense anymore. So I forgot about that little rock.

That was until a couple of weeks ago when I happened to reach into that same forgotten pocket and found that little rock right where I had first left it, the word “gratitude” still etched into its front. At first, I smiled at the memory and my teacher’s kind gesture. Then I started to think. In the little over a year since I had first placed the rock in my backpack, I had become incredibly consumed by the homework I still needed to do, the test grades I didn’t yet know, and by my math grade—which is lower than I would like. Finding the rock reminded me that even in the tiny world of high school, I still have so much to be grateful for. Though my math grade may not be what I want, it has improved from where it was! My teacher has gone out of her way to meet with me on several occasions to help me better understand the material, and every academic challenge I’ve faced has helped me to develop better study and time management habits. But it’s easy to forget about gratitude when you’re charging ahead to what comes next. It’s difficult to pause and be grateful for what’s in front of you right now.

I’ve found that applies outside of school, too. When I was younger, my family and I would spend a large portion of the summer with my grandparents in the North Carolina mountains. One of our favorite activities were going on long walks or hikes together. Whenever we set out, I was always very eager for the adventures that lay ahead, oftentimes volunteering to wear a very stylish fanny pack, even when the length of a hike really didn’t necessitate it. But, my attitude usually changed around halfway in. I would start to complain that I was tired of walking and could think of nothing but getting back home to a yummy snack and my favorite kids’ show. My grandfather “Doc-Doc” usually had other ideas, and he always seemed to find ways to add to the length of a hike, never missing a teachable moment. He would often pause to ask what felt like ten million questions: “So Hannah, what type of plant is this,” or “so Hannah, can you name that mountain?” As expected for a kid my age, I almost never answered correctly, which meant an even longer conversation involving a history or science lesson. Despite being moments I now look back on fondly, my eagerness to get back home prevented me from appreciating this time with family and the incredible beauty of God’s creation surrounding me. Looking ahead to what could come next prevented me from being content with the blessings right in front of me.

In his Epistle to the Philippians, Paul writes that he has learned “the secret to being content in any and every circumstance, whether full or hungry or whether having plenty or being poor.” It sounds like an incredible secret; after all, it’s not easy to be content with the present when you don’t know what the future holds. But Paul gives away the secret in the next line. He says he is able to “endure all these things through the power of the one who gives [him] strength.” When we struggle to take moments to show gratitude or find ourselves ignoring what we already have, Paul teaches us to turn to God. Through God, we are able to find peace with what is in front of us now and give proper gratitude for all we have.

Joy,

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God’s Treasures

Dr. Doug Hood’s wife, Grace Cameron Hood, B.C.E, wrote the following meditation.

“…you are precious in my eyes, you are honored, and I love you.”

Isaiah 43:4a (Common English Bible)

The Holly House is a ministry of First Presbyterian Church of Delray Beach. Women get together each week to change the world. They make incredible crafts, do service projects, socialize, eat together, and enjoy one another. They have formed a support system based on fun, faith, and creativity. Everyone is welcomed and included. They are a microcosm of what the church strives to be.

Each year, Holly House participates in a time-honored and universal ministry of churches everywhere. They sponsor a rummage sale. The proceeds of the sale go to the ministry of the church. This is how it works. If you have something that you do not need or want or can’t use anymore, you donate it to the church. The women sort everything. This is a time-consuming and tedious job. Imagine sorting hundreds of donated shirts according to size and price. When the sale happens, the community comes in droves. Someone might see an item and realize that they want it, they need it, or they have a use for it. They pay for it. This is a wonderful system. What becomes one person’s discard, trash, or burden becomes the next person’s treasure. This is recycling at its very best!

What does this have to do with a book on gratitude? One day, I was looking through a table of delicate china teacups at the Holly House that had been donated. I grew up with those multi-color aluminum tumblers (which are now collector’s items), white mismatched mugs, and ‘unbreakable’ Corelle cups. I love china teacups. As I studied the intricate and colorful tea cups, I was overwhelmed with a feeling of gratitude for what I have. I am grateful for many things. I inherited a lovely set of tea cups decorated with beautiful violets from my grandmother. They are gorgeous. What’s more, I have the entire set, which includes plates, serving bowls, miniature salt and pepper shakers, a matching sugar and creamer set, and finally, small ashtrays for the bridge games my grandmother would host.  What I have is more than I wanted. It is more than I thought I needed. 

My gratitude goes beyond what I have. It speaks to who our God is. God wants us to have more than we can imagine. What God gives us might not be riches or things. God offers us a sense of worth that comes from who God says we are.  We are not unwanted, unneeded, or a burden. I am grateful that with God, we are each precious and valued. That is one important thing to remember about God. All of us are wanted and loved. There is no one on earth that God discards, donates, or sells. We are not a burden that is carried around or hidden away in an attic or basement when interest has died.  None of us are chosen as second best. We all have immense value in God’s eyes. We are all precious and a treasure to God. There is more. When we look at people around us, we need to remember that God values them! We need to treat people around us as if they were precious to God. This changes how we look at the world. As we see the world through the eyes of gratitude, our perspective changes and creates the community that God intended. One of love, acceptance, inclusivity, and care. 

Joy,

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Living in the Present Tense

“Therefore, stop worrying about tomorrow, because tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Matthew 6:34 (Common English Bible)

It is the practice of the Eskimos never to carry the day’s evil experiences, its troubles and its quarrels, over into the next day. Two Eskimo hunters might become engaged in a violent dispute over the division of the game which they had taken, and heated words might even bring them to blows, but once the sun had set and they had retired to sleep, all memory of the quarrel would be erased from their spirits, and the next day they would greet each other as brothers. If you were to exclaim in surprise: “But I thought you were enemies. You were fighting yesterday!” they would answer: “Ah, but that was yesterday and we live only today.”i That is living in the present tense!

Mark Twain, with his characteristic humor, once commented that he has suffered many things most of which never happened. Doctors tell us that much of our anxiety, which often results in physical, emotional, and spiritual unease, is located in tomorrow, a preoccupation with fears of the future. Consequently, our fears of tomorrow rob us of the opportunity to live fully and abundantly today. Naturally, wise and reasonable decisions and personal behavior must shepherd us in the present day. Careless spending today will result in debt tomorrow. A word carelessly spoken or a relationship betrayed may negatively impact all of our tomorrows. Not all of us have been nurtured in the Eskimo culture!

Jesus’ invitation in this teaching is to locate our hearts in God. Worry and anxiety is all about trying to avoid something, about trying to get away from something. The strain of worry is indicative that we don’t trust the future. Jesus asks that we approach life from another perspective. Rather than fleeing what we fear most, Jesus asks that we run toward God. As Augustine once said, “Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee.”i Jesus asks that we live in the present tense, free from the regrets of yesterday and the fears of tomorrow. That is possible after we have accepted God’s forgiveness for the past and trust in God’s care for the future.

Thomas Long writes that there is a kind of worry about the coming day that is normal, even healthy. “Tomorrow’s chemistry test or job interview is bound to provide concern, and this command ‘stop worrying about tomorrow’ is not an invitation to finesse the exam or to waltz into the interview unprepared. Rather, it speaks to the deeper, more basic fear that something is out there in the future that can destroy our basic worth as a human being, something finally stronger than God’s care, some silent killer shark swimming toward us from the future.”iii Jesus asks that we cling to God in such a manner that we can affirm that whatever tomorrow brings, it also brings God.

Joy,

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i Clayton E. Williams, “Living Today Forever,” Best Sermons: 1955 Edition, edited by G. Paul Butler (New York, London & Toronto: McGraw-Hill Book Company, Inc., 1955) 106.

ii Thomas G. Long, Matthew (Louisville & London: Westminster John Know Press, 1997) 76.

iii Long, 76.

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The Christian Way of Life

“Rejoice always. Pray continually. Give thanks in every situation because this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (Common English Bible)

CliffsNotes is a series of study guides in pamphlet form. Great works of literature and other works are redacted—or condensed—to present a larger work in a more accessible form for a quick perusal of the material. Some use CliffsNotes to determine if a large work is something they want to invest the time in for savoring the entire volume. Others, usually students preparing for an exam, simply want the facts. In these three brief verses from Paul’s letter to the Thessalonians, Paul provides the CliffsNotes to the Christian way of life.  In three rapid movements, God’s will for us is presented: we are to be a people who rejoice always, who pray continually, and who give thanks in every situation. Paul met with this young congregation only a few times before writing this letter, yet he has developed a deep affection for them—“like a nursing mother caring for her own children (1 Thessalonians 2:7)”—and longs that they grow strong in these three common shared experiences.

What does it mean to “rejoice always?” When my son, Nathanael, turned five years old, his mother and I threw him a birthday party. Half a dozen of his friends were invited and, as traditional birthdays go, birthday presents were presented and opened before cutting the birthday cake. Opening one gift, Nathanael’s eyes grew wide with joy, and, looking intently at the toy, exclaimed with delight, “It’s what I have always wanted! What is it?” Knowing what the gift is or the function of the gift was not important. Something greater was going on. Nathanael was surrounded by people who loved him, who cared to show up for his birthday, and even now were celebrating him. There was a party going on, and Nathanael was at the center of it all! Paul’s entire ministry is an announcement that God has shown up for us and is active in all things. Though there will be much in life we don’t understand, God stands with us in all life’s circumstances. That is an occasion for rejoicing always!

To pray continually is not every moment but constantly, repeatedly, as an acknowledgment that God is standing right with us. Richard Rohr tells us that St. Francis used to spend whole nights praying the same prayer: “Who are you, O God, and who am I?” Rohr asks that we notice that St. Francis is not stating anything, is not sure of anything, but is just asking open-ended questions.[i] This is the prayer that Paul speaks of when he instructs us to pray continually. The continual notice that God is God, whatever that may mean, and that we are not, is humbling. Such prayer—a constant awareness of a God of infinite mystery—diminishes any notion that we are large enough or strong enough to face life on our own. There is tremendous freedom in that! We are not alone in this journey we call life. Whatever may come in our future is not solely dependent upon us. The great object of prayer is to get home to God even when we fail to receive from God compliance for what we ask.

Paul concludes his summary of the Christian life asking that we give thanks in every situation. The careful eye will distinguish between “give thanks in every situation” and “give thanks for every situation.” Even the smallest child has experienced enough to realize that life throws some things at us that one cannot reasonably be thankful for. What Paul is asking us is that a life that has mastered rejoicing always and praying continually is a life that knows there is more to come—that any hardship, any loss, or any suffering fails to have the last word. God is present in each moment of our life and continually seeks our good. God has determined in the resurrection of Jesus Christ to have the last word for us. It is a word of life abundant with God for eternity. William James writes, “The greatest discovery of my generation is that people can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.”[ii] Paul asks that we alter our lives simply by relinquishing control over our outcomes in life and approach all situations with a grateful heart that God moves us forward—even through the darkest shadows. Here, writes Paul, is the sum of the Christian life.

Joy,


[i] Richard Rohr, Yes, And…Daily Meditations (Cincinnati, Ohio: Franciscan Media, 1997) 102.

[ii] Earl Nightingale, Successful Living in a Changing World (Sound Wisdom: Shippensburg, PA., 2021) 174.

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Jealousy, the Enemy of Gratitude

The following meditation was written by Dr. Hood’s son, Nathanael Hood, MA, New York University; MDiv, Princeton Theological Seminary

After David came back from killing the Philistine, and as the troops returned home, women from all of Israel’s towns came out to meet King Saul with singing and dancing, with tambourines, rejoicing, and musical instruments. The women sang in celebration:

‘Saul has killed his thousands,

but David has killed his tens of thousands!’

Saul burned with anger. This song annoyed him. ‘They’ve credited David with tens of thousands,’ he said, ‘but only credit me with thousands. What’s next for him—the kingdom itself?’ So Saul kept a close eye on David from that point on.” 

(1 Samuel 18:6-9, Common English Bible)

For almost a decade now, I’ve kept a personal practice of reading through the entire Bible once per calendar year. I do this with the help of an online guide that divides the entire book into 365 bite-sized chunks, each taking 10-15 minutes to read. This practice has deepened my relationship with God in ways I can scarcely describe, but it’s also had the odd side effect of permanently associating certain parts of the Bible in my mind with certain parts of the year. For example, for me, January is synonymous with stories of God’s creation of the world, of Noah and the ark, of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, and of Joseph’s bondage in Egypt. Likewise, the coming of summer in June and July means the Psalms; the arrival of cold weather in October, the Gospels; and the month of April—the time I am currently writing this meditation—the epic saga of the Kings of Israel.

The stories of these kings and the rise and fall of their kingdoms are some of the most dynamic in the entire Bible, full of battles won, and wars lost, of secret prophecies and even more secret magics, of doomed families and lost lineages. Put simply, I’ve come to associate the month of April with stories that would make the greatest fantasy authors, from J. R. R. Tolkien to George R. R. Martin, green with envy. The crown jewel of these April stories—for me, at least—involves King David, the most famous and revered of the biblical kings of Israel. David, shepherd son, and Goliath-slayer, father of Solomon and author of the Psalms, has one of the richest, most extensive narratives of any single character in the entire Bible. And, perhaps unexpectedly for such a towering figure, he spends much of his youth powerless and fleeing for his life.

I’ll not summarize the whole story here—these meditations do have a word count limit—but suffice it to say that soon after entering the biblical narrative, David finds himself at odds with King Saul, the first king of Israel, the man whose throne he would one day usurp. The Bible portrays King Saul as a tragic figure, a once-righteous man whose flaws—many of which could be interpreted by modern readers as mental illnesses—lead to his downfall and death. At first, he loves David like a son, welcoming him into his court and enlisting him as a warrior in his armies. But David’s divinely-guided success on the battlefield quickly curdles Saul’s affections. In the eighteenth chapter of 1 Samuel, the situation comes to a head when fresh from a military success, Saul’s subjects sing a song comparing his and David’s exploits on the battlefield, lauding the latter over the former. As noted biblical scholar Walter Brueggemann points out, “The triumph belongs to both of them…there is enough joy for both to share fully.”1 But instead of sharing in this joy, instead of feeling gratitude for the excellent service of his subject, Saul becomes consumed with jealousy. From that point on, Saul never trusts David again. From that point on, Saul’s days as king are numbered.

Saul Attacking David by GUERCINO (b. 1591, Cento, d. 1666, Bologna);1646. Oil on canvas, Galleria Nazionale d’Arte Antica, Rome.

There are two powerful lessons here for those with ears to listen. First, jealousy cannot coexist with gratitude. It poisons our minds and short-sights our outlooks. Saul could have accepted David’s success with gratitude—his victories strengthened his kingdom and humbled his enemies! But his jealousy warped an ally into a foe, one he would eventually hound into exile and lose his throne pursuing. Second, true gratitude isn’t selfish; it’s selfless. Gratitude that comes from a loving heart rejoices in the successes of others and doesn’t wallow in self-pity. Self-pity leads to jealousy, which, as my April readings prove year after year, leads to self-destruction.

Joy,


1Walter Brueggemann, First and Second Samuel: Interpretation: A Bible Commentary for Teaching and Preaching (Louisville, KY: John Knox Press, 1990), 136

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Write Them on Your Doorframes

The following meditation was written by Dr. Doug Hood’s son, Nathanael Hood, MA, New York University; MDiv, Princeton Theological Seminary

These words that I am commanding you today must always be on your minds…tie them on your hand as a sign. They should be on your forehead as a symbol. Write them on your house’s doorframes and on your city’s gates.

(Deuteronomy 6: 6,8,9 (Common English Bible)

Throughout the world, if you visit a religiously observant Jewish household, you’ll likely notice a tiny tilted cylinder called a mezuzah affixed to their doorposts. Usually no more than a few inches in size, a mezuzah—or the plural “mezuzot”—is commonly inscribed with nothing but the Hebrew letter “ש,‎” an abbreviation for the word Shaddai which both Jews and Christians will recognize as one of God’s many names in the Bible. With a handful of exceptions, mezuzot are placed in each doorway within a Jewish household. These mezuzot are not solid talismans but hollow containers holding a parchment scrape inscribed with verses from the Torah, the first five books of the Old Testament. There are many rules and regulations surrounding their construction, installation, and maintenance—only a specific kind of parchment can be used, the verses must be written by a specifically trained scribe, they must be affixed within a specific time frame after moving in, a specific blessing must be said as they’re installed, and they must be specifically checked for deterioration or damage every few years.

For religious outsiders, this might seem quite the hassle! After all, when observant Christians put up crosses or crucifixes in our homes, we don’t usually have a clergyperson make, install, and maintain them! But for observant Jews, mezuzot are not simple ornaments—they fulfill one of the 613 mitzvot or “commandments” required of them in the Torah, specifically the command from the Book of Deuteronomy to affix God’s words to their “doorframes and on [their] city’s gates.” What respect! What piety! What gratitude. And “gratitude” is the proper word here, for the bestowal of the Torah and its 613 mitzvot is considered by Jewish people as cause for joy and celebration. Mezuzot, therefore, are not grim, compulsory reminders of religious doctrine, but everyday reminders that they are God’s precious covenant people.

As early Christianity diverged from traditional Judaism in the first and second centuries AD and became a religion dominated by Gentile converts, we discarded most of the 613 mitzvot—including the use of mezuzot. But there are times when I wonder whether Christianity may have lost something precious by abandoning them. I think, in particular, of a dear friend in New York City who identifies as Modern Orthodox and has mezuzot posted all throughout his apartment. I’m always deeply moved by how he’ll reverently touch them as he passes them by, lifting his hand to his lips to kiss the fingers that themselves have touched God’s words.

Understand this—I’m not advocating the Christian “reclamation” of mezuzot, but I do believe we stand to learn from our Jewish neighbors’ model of everyday religious gratitude. Too often, we Christians limit our devotions to one hour of worship on Sunday morning and to prayers before meals and bedtime. But if the promises of the Gospels are true—if we truly are redeemed from sin through Christ and guaranteed everlasting life—why shouldn’t we express a similar kind of gratitude? A joyous, sometimes euphoric everyday gratitude of amazement that, sinners though we be, we too have been chosen and redeemed, blessed and protected, cherished and beloved? So while we maybe shouldn’t affix Gospel verses to our doorposts, perhaps we Christians should strive in our own way to keep our gratitude alive and fresh all the days of our lives, in all our comings and goings. What other proper response could there be for a redemption such as that earned on the cross?

Joy,

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Where to Begin

“Rather, you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.”

Acts 1:8 (Common English Bible)

When the king in Alice in Wonderland was asked where to begin, he said gravely, “Begin at the beginning… and go on till you come to the end: then stop.” Begin at the beginning. Naturally, that guidance seems reasonable. That is, until you have to actually open your mouth, and speak. With thoughts racing from one place to another, it quickly becomes apparent that there are many fine places to begin. Jesus tells his disciples, here in Acts, “you will be my witnesses.” Where do the disciples begin? Where are we to begin? Sharing our faith in Jesus seems reasonable until we actually confront that moment – that moment when we are asked, “Who is Jesus?”

That moment came to me one Easter morning. I was enjoying breakfast in a Doylestown, PA diner, looking over the message I would preach in just a few hours. Mary, the waitress assigned to the table where I was seated, approached with coffee and said, “I guess this is your big day, pastor!” “I guess so,” I remarked. Then Mary asked, “What is Easter all about anyway?” Initially, I dismissed her question, not thinking she was serious. But I was mistaken; Mary was very serious. It was then I took the time to really notice her, to look into her eyes and really see her. I will not forget those eyes—eyes that betrayed her silence; silence of considerable pain. “Where do I begin?” I thought. I began with her pain. “Easter means that you can stop beating yourself up. Whatever guilt you may have now, whatever mistakes you have made in life, Easter means that you are to stop immediately from beating yourself up. God has removed it all.”

“But there is more,” I said to Mary. “Easter is an invitation to pay attention to Jesus.” I shared with Mary that as she paid attention to Jesus, by reading of him in the Bible, she will discover that she will want to be more than she is now. “Pay attention long enough to Jesus and you will experience a compulsion to be something more; you will begin to live differently.”  Mary needed to hear that Jesus doesn’t leave a life unchanged. Any significant time spent with Jesus always results in a desire to be made new. “Your whole world will appear different. You will want to be different.”

“Finally, Mary, begin to follow Jesus as you learn about him.” I shared with her that what that means is to “do what he asks in his teaching.” Imagine Jesus as a mentor in life and do everything that is asked of you. Something inexplicable happens when someone commits to doing all that Jesus’ asks: they receive an uncommon power to do so. People who obey all that they understand of Jesus’ teachings receive a power from outside of themselves; a power that actually makes them something so much more than what they were. Mary began to cry and asked how to begin. That is when I knew I had come to the end. And there, in a diner in Doylestown, PA, Mary gave her life to Jesus.

Joy,

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The Promise of Something New (Location: Jerusalem)

The following meditation was written by Doug Hood’s son,

Nathanael Hood, MA, New York University; MDiv, Princeton Theological Seminary

As Jesus came to the city and observed it, he wept over it.

Luke 19:41 (Common English Bible)

Pause a moment, and consider the city of Jerusalem as Jesus once saw it. Jesus the man—the Nazarene rabbi—looked upon an already ancient city straining under the yoke of Roman imperialism. Centurions elbowed through marketplaces crowded with Samaritans and Sadducees; self-righteous Israelites prayed in the squares as scabrous lepers scurried through the outskirts. In a few hours, he would be welcomed as a savior by the oppressed masses who would lay their coats and palm branches before him, singing the Psalms of David in joyous delirium. In a few days, those same crowds would scream for his death, demanding his execution at the hands of Pontius Pilate.

There is a small Roman Catholic church on the spot believed to be where Jesus wept in the nineteenth chapter of Luke—shaped like a tear drop, it sits on the Mount of Olives east of the city. Not too far from it is the Church of the Holy Sepulchre, believed to be situated on Golgotha, where Jesus was crucified. Did he know, when he looked upon that city, that in a week’s time he would be seeing a nearly identical view, this time tortured, beaten, and nailed to a cross? Yes, Jesus looked upon the city that would be his doom and wept.

Now consider Jesus the Divine, the physical incarnation of the holy Godhead, the living Word that is and was and will be. See the city he saw, the city first inhabited 6000-7000 years ago by shepherds thirsty for freshwater springs. See the city ruled in turn by Canaanites, Egyptians, Babylonians, and Romans, dashed by waves of invaders and dynastic restorers. See the city whose legacy is warfare and carnage, as even God’s chosen king David took it by force from its Jebusite inhabitants. See the city that would be ravaged by emperor Vespasian less than a century after his death, the second temple reduced to ashes and a single wall while over a million civilians lay dead with another 97,000 enslaved. See the city conquered by Muslims in the seventh century, contested by crusaders in the eleventh, twelfth, and thirteenth, controlled by Ottoman Turks until the nineteenth, and torn between Israelis and Palestinians to this very day. See the city originally named the “dwelling of peace” which would know none for countless generations.

How can we see this city and not weep? Earlier in the Gospel of Luke, Jesus had mourned the sacred city upon learning of Herod’s plot to murder him:

“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those who were sent to you! How often I have wanted to gather your people just as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings. But you didn’t want that.” (Luke 13:34 CEB)

Two thousand years later and the chicks have still not come home. We look out and see a world more bitterly divided than ever, edged on the brink of cataclysm. How similar it must have felt for first century Jews living under the thumb of Rome where a single order from the emperor could ravage their holiest of holies as was done in the time of Jeremiah. Yet let us not forget that it was out of this swirling void of chaos that God chose to unmake the world itself with a new covenant, one that transcended all the sorrow and brokenness of this life with the promise of a new one. These times are not the end, merely a transition from which to emerge like a certain lowly carpenter all those years ago towards a great glory.

Joy,

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Wheat and Weeds

The following mediation is by Dr. Michael B. Brown, former senior minister at Marble Collegiate Church in New York City.

“Two men looked out from prison bars. One saw the mud. The other, stars.” (Dale Carnegie)

We’ve all been told time and time again that life is 10% circumstance and 90% perspective. I’m not sure the stats are that dramatic, but it’s probably close. We hear it all the time: “It is what it is.” Life happens. It’s how we interpret it that makes the difference between happiness and hopelessness.

Jesus told a fascinating parable about how we see things (Matthew 23:24-43). The owner of a field and one of his chief servants were standing side-by-side looking through the same window at the same plot of ground. The servant was alarmed, pointing out that an enemy of the farmer had come and sowed weeds in the wheatfield. There were weeds were everywhere. Might as well just set fire to the whole acreage. The owner, however, replied that if his servant would take a closer look, he would also see wheat growing in the field alongside the weeds. HIs advice was to wait till the day of harvest, gather the wheat, and then burn the weeds. One saw a disaster. The other saw a harvest. Two men looked out from prison bars. One saw the mud. The other, stars.

Fred Craddock was asked what gift he would give to each of his children if he could give them only one. He immediately replied: “That’s easy. I would give them the gift of a grateful heart because that will determine how they experience everything else in life.” There are weeds in every field, if that’s where we decide to focus.

  • No person is perfect. You may recall the story of a husband and wife driving home from church one Sunday. The minister had preached on the text, “Be ye perfect, even as God is perfect.” The husband said to his wife: “I wonder how many perfect people there actually are in the world.” She answered: “One less than you think!” No person is perfect, but they (we) always exist alongside the assurance of grace.
  • No job is perfect. There will be bumps and bruises, but they always exist alongside the reality of senses of accomplishment, purpose, fulfillment, and personal pride. 
  • No marriage is perfect. But husbands and wives always exist alongside the vows “to love and to cherish” even in spite of the wheat of “ in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer.”
  • No church is perfect, but every church exists alongside the biblical truth that “we have this treasure in clay pots” (II Corinthians 4:7), and though imperfect, they are still holy. In every church I’ve ever served there were saints—not sinless people, but good and decent and faithful people who made the world a better place.

We could go on and on with this, but you get the point. Life happens. It’s how we interpret it that makes the difference between happiness and hopelessness. Craddock was right—A grateful heart will determine how we experience everything else in life. 

I often encourage people to create A Thanksgiving Journal. That’s simply a book or notepad which you put next to your bed. Every night before the lights are turned off, write down one good thing you experienced or witnessed that day. Admittedly, it may have been a long, tiring, or difficult day. Even so, there is always at least one blessing we can recall. Write it down. Then write down another the next night, and another the next. On the final night of every month, read aloud the entries from your journal. Doing so will remind us that when we pay attention, we will always discover blessings. In time, that practice will create within us spirits of gratitude which will determine how we experience life itself. It will help us, in spite of the weeds, to see the wheat and celebrate it.

Joy,

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Religious

An Attitude of Gratitude

The following meditation is by Dr. Michael B. Brown, former senior minister of Marble Collegiate Church in New York City.

The late Dr. Charlie White told a humorous story about an elderly woman deep in the Ozark Mountains. She possessed very little in material ways, but always maintained a spirit thankfulness for what she did have. When asked to say Grace at a family holiday dinner (with a huge spread on the table), she bowed her head and said: “Dear Lord, as I look at this food I find myself thinking, I may have only two teeth, but thank God they both meet!”  

Laughter is good medicine, the Bible tells us (Proverbs 17:22). It can also be the source of deep wisdom, as in the story of that woman who said Grace. An attitude of gratitude focuses not so much on the amount of possessions as on their quality. My dad was a man with that sort of perspective about things. As a teen, whenever I would return from a friend’s house and remark to Dad about how big and beautiful it was, he had a standard answer: “You can’t live in but one room at a time.” Or, when I would brag (hint, perhaps?) about some buddy’s new car and how great it was, he would say: “The purpose of a car is to get you safely from Point A to Point B. Yours does that, so it’s a `good’ car.” The older I grow, the more I understand the astuteness of his words.

This doesn’t mean, of course, that we should denigrate nice things or fail to appreciate such things when we possess them. It is rather to say that anything which is useful, anything that brings joy or comfort, is a “nice thing.” Think of Mary, as Luke tells her story in the first chapter of his gospel. 

  • She is an unwed young girl (probably in her early teens). 
  • She is betrothed (engaged in a legally binding way). 
  • She and her fiancee are not people of means. 
  • She is startled (Luke says “confused”) by an unexpected angel who brings an equally unexpected message. Mary “will conceive and give birth to a son” though, in her own words, she has not been “with no man.” (Luke 1:28-34)

At that moment, Mary was sure of a handful of things:

  • Joseph would neither believe nor understand this strange tale, and he would in all likelihood end their relationship. 
  • Neither his family nor her own would take her at her word.
  • In her small town where everyone knew everyone else, her reputation would be ruined (she would be forever branded with a scarlet letter).
  • Even her life could be in danger, as infidelity when betrothed was a capital offense should the betrayed party choose to pursue it. 

No wonder that young girl was alarmed. And yet, when she assessed the situation in its full context, and when she focused on the angel’s words, “the one who is to be born will be holy. He will be called God’s Son (Luke 1:35),” Mary exclaimed not with fear but with joy: “The mighty one has done great things for me!” (Luke 1:49)

Mary had every reason to envy others who possessed more, or to lament the challenges that had been placed before her. But instead, she focused on the blessings, hope in the midst of hard times, goodness located in a world of challenge. She realized it is not the quantity of one’s possessions that matter, but rather the quality. And what could bring greater quality than to know she had a personal relation with the Holy One who “will be called God’s Son”? (Luke 1:35) Her awareness of quality and her gratitude for it brought her a sense of deep joy. “The mighty one has done great things for me!” That’s the place we always wind up if we cultivate attitudes of gratitude.

Joy,